Thanks for both of your posts with the pertinent quotes Pearl. They have been very helpful. I have been reading the 'setting them free' thread. My reference to feedback was regarding myself before I joined the forum. I lurked here for a month and read the books and thought I was doing well with the LRT...but it's obvious after just a few days here that I would have served myself better to have been posting and getting some feedback. I think I was misunderstanding what I read in a lot of posts that being in the same house would be the ideal situation for using DB methods. Here I was thinking I was in the best possible spot to turn everything around. Posting was a big 180 for me-my IC is encouraging me to reach out to people more, so I'm trying!
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"
