SO I was on my way to my Brothers house, semt a text to the W and asked if the kids could talk, she replied that D was already asleep and S was playing wiht some friends, I said ok.

About an hour later W calls let it go to VM. It was S on the phone and left me a message with W coaching him in the background. He says, hi daddy, I love you, I miss you I will talk to you tomorrow. She is telling him what to say which we both do this as a common courtesy. THe message keeps going with the W talking to S. W sounded wore smooth out, you could hear in her voice she is drained.

I sent her a text saying I was busy meeting with my brother(we have some business deals together) and that I would like her to tell the kids I will see them tomorrow at church. She replied ok, 2 minutes later hows it going? I said fine i will talk to you later about it. She replies ok, tell your brother I said Hi, gnight! I replied he sayts hi, and gnight 2 u too!.

When I seem to end the convo she seems to want to carry it on, I am not a jerk but i dont go into too much detail. I feel good about my sitch right now, no matter where it goes 5 days until our first hearing. Our D has not been brought up in weeks, no mention of it from either of us. I will show up not contest and treat it like business. I will leave the emotions in the lobby.....