Sorry you saw that, but I know it's for the best too. They all lie. That's what they do. They say they are doing it to protect you, but they are doing it protect themselves. Anyway, if you find it freeing, then maybe it is for the best.
Thanks Lotus.
I'm thankful I didn't assault the guy. That would have been very bad, win or lose. If I won I would've felt good momentarily, but it would have been a complete loss in every other area. He was really cautious...I told him "you like f**king with married people huh?" "It all comes back around" ...he made some dumba$$ comment about "every day is a why"...called him an idiot, walked towards him and then just turned around and walked away. Stared at my W in the passenger seat of her truck and watched her stare straight forward.
Pulled out at the same time, I was pissed...pulled up side by side to him and gave him a 3 min finger. Really pissed...but it was better than kicking his a$$
She could give me 900 reasons why she lied. I would have just threw up in the end anyway.
Yes, I find it freeing. I'm feeling now my goal is clear cut and whatever happens now I can be firm on my Boundaries. I'm not happy about being cheated on so if opportunity presents itself down the road I know from this board alone how to approach the matter.
I get divorced in 26 days. No More Mr Nice Guy and I will NOT be a doormat again.
