my H agreed to MC while separated to reconcile, and still had the A going on because he "couldn't break it off with her". Ohh and he said I was crazy to the Counselor cause "he never had an affair". So going to MC was no turning point for us.
Sounds exactly like what happened in my M. We started MC while separated and unbeknownst to me, H was still having an A. It wasn't until he FINALLY admitted he slept with the OW that the "piecing" started. Of course, it was also at that time he completely cut the OW out of his life.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
