Today is a day that you will need to feel this. That's right. You need to feel this pain. You need to feel this hurt.
Today is the day that Bobby is going to have to make a very hard decision.
Do you remember when you said at the alter...for better or for worse? This Bobby is the for worse part.
Your wife is running from her pain right now. You wife needs someone to be a steady light for her.
Is Bobby that person? Can Bobby be the strong one right now?
Can Bobby check his ego at the door?
Can Bobby deal with this pain?
Can Bobby face it and go through it?
Can Bobby be the father that his kids need right now?
Can Bobby hold the fort down while his wife is off her rocker?
Can Bobby put aside his pain and have compassion towards his wife?
Can Bobby look at Bobby and own his role in the break up?
Can Bobby begin the hard work of changing...rather killing the issues that he knows he has?
Can Bobby love her EVEN when she does not love him back?
Bobby - this is hard. Nothing I or anyone on these boards will take the pain away.
You are in shock...accept it! Deal with it! Man up and face it!
Because Bobby....
This is really about YOU!
You do not see it now...and really I am not going to sugar coat it...you may not see it...BUT
If you open yourself...if you allow the natural changes that are life to take hold...if you let go and give up control...if you do the work on YOU...well then Bobby.....
YOU WILL REALIZE THAT YOU (yes I said YOU) decide when this is over. YOU decide when the M is over!
I will pray for you tonight...
I will stand with you Bobby....you can do this chit!
Go through the shock....go through the pain....and emerge...emerge as the new Bobby!
THe Bobby that your W may come running back to.
She can see through any of the bul*[censored] Bobby. She can see through any of the tactics that you may try to use to get her back. She can see you Bobby....So let me ask YOU a question....
What does Bobby see when HE looks in the mirror?
Hang out with your friends Bobby - you have a lot of work in front of you. I know you can do it.
For better or for worse....
In sickness and in health.....
What does this ^^^^ mean to you Bobby.
No more talking....no more begging...no more bull...time to man up and SHOW her - SHOW HER what TRUE LOVE IS. SHOW HER WHAT STRENGTH IS....SHOW HER Bobby...
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
