I just got home and was surprised. There were no pictures of my wife anywhere but pictures of me and the kids. There was furniture in the study that my wife moved into the family room. I had requested that she not do this before I left. She arranged the furniture as she saw fit. Her clothes and computer are still here. I have not spoken with her for 2 days. I am numb and in shock. This day is the worst day of my life. The death of my father was nothing compared to the way I feel. Will hang out with friends tomorrow and pray for brighter days ahead. Bobby O