I'm actually relieved. I'm scared too though. At one point I thought I could take her back if I ever found out, but with the dishonesty and the way I've been feeling lately. No way. Now I can truly begin to let go and not hesitate. If she comes to me groveling, maybe I'd "think" about it, but right now. She's dead to me.
A lot of people early on on this thread have suspected that something along those lines was happening.
In my sitch, I suspected the worst also. All indications were there but it turned out to be nothing. Just a friend (borderline EA) who she found to be more "attractive" than I was.
It's not the end of the world. Please, don't wish her dead.
I have been praying over and over again to get the strength to let go or to have truth revealed. Friends, my prayers were answered today.
You decided that it's the truth how?
You caught them naked and stuck to each other???
I'm not mad at you when I say this, but C'MON!
Do I really need anymore proof...so what if she wasn't naked and stuck to him. I mean for petes sake the 2x4 turned into a 3x6. EA or PA, I mean really...it's an AFFAIR and she's a friggin LIAR.
I've known her for 18 freaking years. My gut has been telling the whole time is something wrong and now I KNOW. It's enough for me. That's why detaching has been killing me and putting me in weird moods. NOW I can live with myself damn it.
Everything just got so damn clear. I still need advice, but as far as WHAT was seen today, no reason to question my gut anymore.
I have been praying over and over again to get the strength to let go or to have truth revealed. Friends, my prayers were answered today.
You decided that it's the truth how?
You caught them naked and stuck to each other???
I'm not mad at you when I say this, but C'MON!
Do I really need anymore proof...so what if she wasn't naked and stuck to him. I mean for petes sake the 2x4 turned into a 3x6. EA or PA, I mean really...it's an AFFAIR and she's a friggin LIAR.
I've known her for 18 freaking years. My gut has been telling the whole time is something wrong and now I KNOW. It's enough for me. That's why detaching has been killing me and putting me in weird moods. NOW I can live with myself damn it.
Everything just got so damn clear. I still need advice, but as far as WHAT was seen today, no reason to question my gut anymore.
A 15 minute accidental phone call she picked up where she and her girlfriends were drunk and making out with some guys.
Match.com payment
I'm done, I just want to be alone.
The list is huge...those we're off the top of my head. It's been in play for awhile. Although Naive, I just kept trying to persuade her into the truth. I even told her one time, if she doesn't come clean to me, BEFORE I find out the truth, that I would cut her off and never deal with her again.
My love and my hope today are crushed. My limb has been amputated.
