loved steve mcqueen the actor. you sir are a ribald fellow. for the most part i am not interested in other women @ this time. like most men, sure i check out a passing woman but the one i want for me is the one that does not want me. go figure. so like life.

to your 2nd point, speculation i suppose. i know from some of her behaviors, she fancies herself to be rather attractive (which truthfully she is) and wonders what it would be like to be with other men, not necessarily all physical but certainly that is probably part of it. that she has stated to me.

and as for karate? GREAT work out. no mirrors in our dojo (which is in a church hall LOL). no nonsense. the sensei asks for you to leave your problems at the door, with him, focus just on the routine... for a man in my sitch could not ask for better therapy. : )