I slept in the guest room last night and when I got up and went downstairs to the kitchen this morning she apologized for how mean she was to me yesterday. I sent her an email-before I posted my sitch here and she shot back with some very hateful things about how I had treated her over the years and how I had made my bed and I needed to lay in it. Marriage was over and she was going to leave me. She said she had a bad day at work and took it out on me. I replied saying ok and that was all I said. She is being very nice to me today but I have basically just ignored her and I just left the house to come up here to my office to check on a few things. So I am glad to have some power finally.
There was some mixed opinions whether you should have moved out or not. Now that you did you probably should stay your ground.