She got them a while ago around our first split, when our sex life kinda dried up. She had OM, but I guess he wasnt all that in the sack! after we reconciled, the toys went into hibernation.
She always said our sex was the best, and would get mad and feel neglected when I was stressed and sex was the furthest thing on my mind. So maybe I just figured out one of her LL's was the physical connection. Well that obviously isnt something I can go work on now with her
Again I believe some of the mystery is working a bit, since she seems to be interested in what I am doing and stuff like that. Our texts are robotic a bit like TH says, but she is the one who initiates contact first about the kids usually and then into stuff about me. Am I wrong to believe she is still kinda wondering what I am doing?
Another thing was if you kep up with my thread she did go to church last sunday, dont know what the message was but she was reaching out to me like crazy sunday and monday, maybe God's house hit a note with her. She said she is taking the kids tomorrow, she didnt ask if i was going, I think I will show up dressed dapper and see my kids. what do you guys think?