I too get angry to the fact we are left with the responsibilities but it makes you stronger in the end. The W was at least offering her shoulder for me when I had to put my akita down earlier this week. The dogs have always been my dogs, she has not really been in to them as much as me. How many dogs do you have? im down to 2 one akita and one mastiff. Ya I am a big dog kinda guy....
As far as the selfish behavior, I am trying to listen a little more to the vets, and try and understand my W and what she is going through on her own.. I am making progress letting the anger subside a bit, I know you got angry about last night, but you have to stay strong.
