I struggle with same issue.

I just re-read Coach's sitch from beginning to end, and it looks like Coach was not totally dark or waiting for Greek always to initiate, butactually WAS initiating contact with Greek, just not R-oriented contact. Could you guys comment on that a bit more? (content, frequency, did you wait til R had reached certain stage of communication, why did you decide NOT to be totally dark or waiting for other to initiate, etc.)


Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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