Don't want to look like I'm pursuing, so not sure if I should wish Coach a happy birthday. Anyone got any advice?

I haven't EVER called or texted him, so I've been REALLY dark lately.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
Thread
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