GAG, thanks. I did quite a bit of reading of Upside's thread. it reflects my fears exactly! I guess the big thing I learned is that supreme patience is required. H has been gone 3 years now. It's been a long, hard road but there is peace atm. In the coming months I have marked two events to use as a gauge...his birthday and Christmas. Last year I only sent him a text for his birthday and we had no contact for Christmas. Let's see what this year will bring...
Hi Punkin, thanks for stopping by. I need to pop by and read your update.
