Thanks for stopping by my thread. I share your frustrations and concerns. As you stated above, I see movement over the last year in my situation too but in my frustration I have little fantasies about getting some of the things that frustrate me off my chest (telling XH directly to his face what I am thinking)..............but then I hear the voice of reason saying "others who have come to the place where you are have written that this is a tenuous place.........that they were on the road to reconnecting and their frustration and impatience made them walk away or say things that set them back". Things blew up at that point and all the years of hard work went down the proverbial toilet.
Upside is one example I can think of off the top of my head, but she and her H are still communicating and he just told her that he loves her.........but there are others (can't think of who they are right now) that have written on the boards. So I have been very, very patient throughout this
.............yet I wonder if things will ever change if we don't "stir the pot" a bit (as Lance likes to refer to it)?
