thanks Lotus, I do have some abuse on tape from 2004 but mostly I have emails; a paper trails that shows all his promises to change as well as his myriad of excuses as well as documented mind bending manipulation.Problem is (actually not);I have already separated from him 9 months ago...(yes, R; I am talking about us---he refered me to this site by "lovingly" sending me the WAW syndrome article but managed to DELETE the paragraph on HIS responsibility in marriage and WHY I am justifying to NOT wanting to be with him.)ALL the counseling and the "last attempt" was made and he showed his true colors to my Pastor. I am not contacting him apart from writing on this forum as he accused me of being a WAW and that I abandoned him.
I say all this to say ****Dear hubby; I don't want to live with your constant criticizing and verbally and spiritually manipulative ways any more.
You have NOT proved that you love me, you HAVE PROVED that you are arrogant and prideful and DO NOT respect me. I will not talk with you; counsel with you; I am CLOSED UP emotionally (I told you this a YEAR ago and that THIS position would NOT be good for our marriage; but you FAILED to hear or be concerned with anything I said to you...again_...
and in case you are reading this(to jusitfy your behavior and attitude) to get an idea of what kind of rebellious christian women are out there...
HEAR THIS...this one WAS yours. Goodbye.****
Last edited by freespirit; 09/04/1012:47 PM.
M -12 Years 1 9 y son (w/me) S-Nov 2009 (and LOVING it; will NEVER go back!) D-soon
