I know you mean well but I totally disagree. "Gathering intel" is not what I should be doing for me. It won't help ME. It's not improving ME. It's snooping on him and I really have no interest in doing that and think that's not the step I need to be taking in trying to detach. It seems to be bothering you more than it bothers me.
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11