Thanks for the support, I think we ALL want positive things to happen. It's a day by day process, but as long as we focus on ourselves first then we have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Like CD Bear said to me
Originally Posted By: CD Bear
We have to do what WE have to do for ourselves so that WE don't do the same things again in our next relationships. I am NOT going through this again, EVER. I need the skillsets and coping skills to prevent the deterioration of my next R. I need the self analysis and the boundaries to preserve MYSELF in the next R because "that guy" is important to ME and HER. THAT's who she fell in love with. And I need to CONTINUALLY be aware of my old patterns and NEVER let myself slide into dysfunction or taking her for granted.
This should always be our motivation in letting go. Evaluate yourself and fix what YOU can fix.
