GAG you feel what you feel, it's not overreacting....but I think that you started to have expectations and as you know that's a big no no in MLC land. For whatever reason he is back in his cave....could be due to his reconnecting with his BMF or could be just part of MLC....you know they peek out....and back they go again.
On the subject of your H's BMF....I don't see him as a 3rd party in the middle. He is just his friend, he may be a bad influence....but he still just a guy friend. The relationship with you is of a different nature, I don't think a guy friend could replace you.
Find your balance again GAG, If you find it by going dim....then by all means....
Tomorrow is another day, things always look better in the morning. Thinking of you.
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO