So basically, he doesn't know I realize who he's texting. I guess he thinks he's sly. If he were to finally fess up, then I probably WOULD set some boundaries in place, but that's not where I am right now. I don't mean this to sound defensive. Believe me, if someone has a better idea of how to handle this, BY ALL MEANS let me know your thoughts.
Yes, I do. Here's my better idea:
Gather whatever intel you need to know for sure, and then lay out some healthy boundaries.
C'mon, YOU know what he's doing, and HE knows what he's doing. Just because HE doesn't KNOW that you know (and I actually contend that he DOES), doesn't somehow make it all okay.
