I think she is trying to bury the ghosts that haunt her by getting a divorce. I don't think the divorce will give her the clean slate she is looking for.
I think that's partly true, Lotus. Probably not the only reason she wants a D, but she has said before, "I just want to move on with my life".
The night she left our home catastrophically, she was absolutely crushed and an emotional mess. She called, and then even I told her I didn't want to talk alot, she chatted me up and said that she was so sorry about the way this all turned out and she regretted the way she treated me, and wished she was a better wife to me.
I'm pretty damned sure those feeling are coming out at Retrouvialle - and in full force.
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----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch