True, TH, but those are issues that will be addressed at Retrouvaille, not just at the weekend, but in the six weeks following the weekend. She may need to go to IC to deal with some of her issues too. I think she is trying to bury the ghosts that haunt her by getting a divorce. I don't think the divorce will give her the clean slate she is looking for.
We're unfortunate that we have to wait 1 month for the follow up meetings. I think there is one CORE meeting in between. We live in a different area than where it is being held and I looked for the next possible Retrouvialle weekend close to us before scheduling because I thought I should strike while we were still in the infancy stages of this.
by the way, it's 13 weeks of Retro followup here, not 6.
W didn't commit to followups. Only the weekend. But from what I hear, most people don't question the followups after going through the weekend.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
