Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

There's still a lot of love left in us for each other.

That's a pretty big hurdle for you and her to get over. If she comes back without addressing her issues, and you don't address yours, how do you know you won't wind up back here even if you do reconcile?

I agree. There would be boundaries. I've been here unfortunately long enough to understand which boundaries would need to be in place.

One those would be IC and MC for her. She needs it as much as I do.

One of my biggest fears is ending back up here in 6 months, 1 year, 5 years. I don't want to do this again. I don't think she does either, and hence her hesitancy to work on the M.