Just curious if a comment like that is playing his games.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
And now, "u wanna tailgate?" Oh my gosh. Do you know how bad I want to tailgate for the 1st ND football game of the year? Soooooo bad, but I know I can't. : (
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
Latest text, "If u don't let me move back in, then screw it."
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
Latest text, "If u don't let me move back in, then screw it."
really? he thinks thats an apology and a means to reconcile. he needs to become the LBS. give him the bomb script back to him.
"ILYBINILWY sorry but it's just how I feel, I dont think I can get those feelings back for you. I just want to be happy and I think this is best for me,"
no its not playing games, you want him back like this?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
No, I only want him back if he truly wants to be here and wants to do the work. I'm going to get over my fear and do what's suggested, but this is so hard. I don't know why I'm afraid of pushing him away - esp. after what he has done. I think if I say that, he'll shut the door on us and go running back to her. But, I'll try it bc nothing else I have done is working. I'm tired of doing things that don't work.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
courts, I understand your reluctance. letting him go works. it's not over this weekend or next. him getting angry is a good sign, have some faith in the process.
you can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
