I am saying you will need to talk to a lawyer if you need to enforce your boundaries because she continues to not respect them.

You cannot worry about how she is going to react other than to protect yourself and your family.

You are not having the affair. Your boundary is that you will not live in an open marriage: confront, monitor, if she contacts him, expose to OM's wife if he has one, and so on. Bust the affair, protect yourself and protect your kids.


Enforce your boundaries.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/04/10 02:21 AM.
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