I appreciate the questions and I am not offended...and I do want results!!! My approach is to revisit my goals and GAL. I have checked into acting lessons (don't laugh pookie) my job requires me to do a lot of public speaking and it would help me in my career.
No, I have not read Marshall Goldsmith, but I have read a lot of M, R, S and D books the last 8 weeks. bustorama also mentioned that I need to read a couple of books on infidelity. It looks like I have some reading to do this weekend as well.