Thanks for the personality disorder...You are right I should not be an arm chair psych. But I have looked inward and I did see the train wreck happening, just too busy in my own movie to stop the train.
You live near me what are your suggestions for GAL? Also, for being a former doormat you sure ask provocative questions.
I apologize. I did not mean to ask any provocative questions if it came across that way.
We are all here for the same reason.
I get paid to be harsh at times. I work with a lot of characters and I like people in general. I never mean any harm.
I am not former doormat, just recovering. It's a long process.
As to GAL, it depends what you're interests are. There are a lot of things to do here. I am not a "community organizer" type of guy but a lot of people here have found solitude of getting involved with something good.
It's all about making yourself feel good because that radiates.
I have had a fair share of experience with women who were merely gold diggers. Given your age difference between you and your W it brought back some memories.
I was reflecting - not attractive.
We could get together and talk about news and politics, but that does not help with our spouses.
I get paid to be harsh at times. I work with a lot of characters and I like people in general. I never mean any harm.
none us mean any harm, normally
so you just got some feedback, how's your approach working?
you ever read Marshall Goldsmith? he asks hard questions too
what you want is results
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I appreciate the questions and I am not offended...and I do want results!!! My approach is to revisit my goals and GAL. I have checked into acting lessons (don't laugh pookie) my job requires me to do a lot of public speaking and it would help me in my career.
No, I have not read Marshall Goldsmith, but I have read a lot of M, R, S and D books the last 8 weeks. bustorama also mentioned that I need to read a couple of books on infidelity. It looks like I have some reading to do this weekend as well.
