The marriage has problems because of both sides but he doesnt move out because she is pitching a fit. What did you just learn on your thread?

Women aren't attracted to men they don't respect. They don't respect men who treat them nice when they behave poorly.

In my sitch I had a lot of pressure to move out. Because I was the cause of lot of the problems. My stance was, "I have thought about it. I don't agree that me moving out is a solution. I think I should stay home because I want to fight for my family. If you think we need to seperate then I won't stand in your way." I then asked her what she thought about that and she replied, "I respect that." She still moved out. It was the statement I made that mattered. It was a seed.

Last edited by Coach; 09/04/10 01:28 AM.
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