Your STBXW sounds like the third kid in the house. The oldest kid yet the most childish.
Once she gets pissed about one thing such as the dishes not being done it opens the whole grab bag of her grievances and the kids have to listen to her rant through the list. She once said to me "I need to walk away when I'm like this" Well, maybe she should actually try it once in a while instead of just doing more of the same! But, this is the same woman who didn't see the need to go for MC "why should I go for counselling, it'll just show that I'm to blame and have a lot of problems. I already know that so why should I go?" Try to reason with that kind of logic. But that's the mindset that my kids live with folks!
