Ummm cheaters usually lie. You're in a bit of shock right now. I'd save up anymore confrontations for when you are ready to confront her with proof and then ask her to move out.
You need space to heal, and you probably aren't going to do that while she is living with you and cheating (EA or PA).
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
