2gtherbutapart, Thanks for your post. I'm so sorry you are in the same boat. Since 2008, huh? My heart breaks for you. My H denied his affair until April of this year. I have no idea why he finally decided to admit it bc he continued to live with her - without me having an idea.
My H has been turning to alcohol as well. It's really pathetic. He comes here to spend time with DD and brings beer with him. Maybe it's the only way we can live with himself. IDK.
I can absolutely relate to wanting to be done and then still wanting to save the marriage - it's emotional tortue. I'm really sick of allowing this to suck the life out of me.
IDK what kind of advice to offer, bc I sit in a constant state of confusion, but as a former cheerleader and cheer coach, I can offer much support! I hope it helps knowing that my heart goes out to you and your daughters. Since you are pregnant, please make sure that you take care of yourself. I hope you are able to rest and get some relaxation as well. Hugs and hope to you.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
