The second step is developing a friendship with her so all of my emails have been positive in control and a dash of humor with 2 of them to show a little confidence. Or as Coach likes to call it catnip.
I think Coach has slightly different definition for catnip.
What are you telling her in your e-mails?
Are you telling her how much fun you had in town with the boys?
Or you went to see a game or a concert? Gambling in Mohegan?
You need to GAL and then she would start wondering. That's catnip.