The problem is that they know heralready. He and she "met" on the beach and elsewhere and brought our kids together (she's D and has 2 girls) while she was officially "just a friend" and we were all in the dark. So now my two girls feel used, they've realised that outings with Dad and friends were just a means to be together. I know her, under the same illusion, I had her to dinner and tea at home, with girls, the poor lonely divorcee, recovering from a broken heart. How my husband went on about how brave she was, admirable, etc. All the while, if her heart was broken, other body parts were in perfect running order. Excuse the rant, that lying part makes me very angry.
I don't want to see him or her, I just don't want him to feel the kids are being kept away from him. NotCrackingUp
Me: 46 H:42 Together for 18 yrs, married 14. 3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7. Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation. Separated 08/2010
