I chose the road less traveled by #31

[kat727]

So weird because ex just asked me if I really wasn't helping finacially with S17's college until 2nd year. I replied that there are a number of ways to help financially but that I wasn't paying tuition for the first year. S17 needs to show me that he wants it.

I expect the same of his siblings by the way. This has been my game plan ever since S17 was a baby. So many kids goof off the first year and mess up, I figure he is less apt to do that if he is the one paying. S17 knows this is my plan. Yes he has a lot of money to come up with or he has to go to a juco or go to the local university. where there is a will, there is a way.

kat