Pretty sure its a MLC, now what?

[Truegritter]

I really just think he is so incredibly self absorbed with his job

That is sorta getting into his head a bit.

I say this and I believe it

Everyone is capable of growing. He may not be showing you what you want to see that doesn't mean it isn't going to happen or that it is happening in his time and his way.

There is more there than you are privy to.

He is on his own journey...

You are coming to the fork in the road. We all have come to.

When you realize this isn't going to happen quickly.

When you look at your spouse with critical eyes

And you start asking yoursef all these questions.

All of us come to this point Lala and it is an opportunity for real understanding

This is when it is no longer about getting your H and your M back.

It is about you.

Take this time now. And use it for you.