No rescuing. Keep moving forward to get this resolved. When she sees the reality, it may shock some sense into her.
It is past time for her to face reality. If it makes her see what she is doing, great. If not, it's still her decision.
BTW, I have rec'd several txt from her today. She has never used the cute little txt shorthand with me. You know, lol, ttyl, lmao, etc. She has today for the first time.
I think I would be alright with the refi. We got our home and land pretty cheap. I just don't know if it's what I really want. We'll see.
My W's family is pretty close knit. Her brother got a D but that's really the only one. He has tried talking to her, but she avoids him, she doesn't want to hear it. And they are all pretty solid Catholics as my W once was. What happened to her faith? I know, the addiction.
I am really trying to put it in God's hands. It's up to him now. I can't do it. I know that. I have known that. Just didn't want to admit it. Look how much time I have wasted and how much it has affected me.
I know my W is stressed, too, Dan. Maybe now that it's all out in the open and agreed upon, she is more relaxed.
Not getting my hopes up at all, but it is funny how everyone was right; give them what they want, agree with them and it takes most of the pressure off.
