My mom said the same thing about me when I was in High School! She met my dad when they were 17 (whoops got prego with me)and got married before they graduated HS. Of course this was in 1972 - free love you know :)They are still together after 38 years.
Curious if your MLCers have given you the line, "I haven't ever been in control of my life, and now I am and I want to keep it that way." Such crap! Our finances are still together, I still pay all the bills, take care of the house and kids. What is he in control of? NO RESPONSIBLITIES? Can I be in control of that too?
Part of my Hs problem is that he went from his momma's breast to mine. Even in college (we went to different colleges, but were always together), I balanced his checkbook and kept him organized. I can't tell you how many times through the years when we fight about finances, I BEGGED him to take over the responsiblity. But he never wanted to.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
