The hope or your hope? Stay strong and have a positive perspective.
My hope. I used to look at him and see hope, now I look at him and am sad for him. I wonder if my hope was tied to thinking that there was something that I could do to change him. My hope now involves strictly my D and I and how we are going to come out of this okay. This Momma is learning a lot that I hope D absorbs!
Originally Posted By: trapt
Originally Posted By: lala09
Additionally, H has been stressing over finances and job security.
It's sort of odd that he can't see further down the road in regards to this and being apart isn't it?
Being careful not to have expectations, I really just think he is so incredibly self absorbed with his job that he doesn't have time to consider anything else in his life: wife, daughter, family, friends, personal health. He really seems to be falling apart.
