Thanks for the 2x4 Puppy. I am re-reading the posts. I thought I was doing a good job of letting go after the initial bomb and panic. But it is hard to see the mistakes I was/am making with no feedback, so it is much appreciated.
I am expecting/planning on no contact until he comes home from his holiday. Until then I'm going to keep reading and try to formulate a plan of how to ask him to leave the house.
Last edited by Oxymoron; 09/03/1007:42 PM.
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"
