my x did the same play/flirt/still friends thing too. really screws with your head.
i finally concluded their/her reasoning is that if she can play and i play along, then i wasnt really that hurt and i've forgiven and so she shouldnt feel guilty for what she's done.
if you're done and you dont want to play along with this act, then you have to set the guidelines. cordial and friendly without pretending its something its not is where i like it. we're parents to the same child, but not friends.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
