My H says the exact same thing...he will give me everything and he doesn't want a thing. He says over and over that I deserve better than him, that he will take care of me and make sure I don't want for anything because what he has done to me is horrible.
I know he has his cake and is eating too. I don't call or text unless it is financial/kids/house...but like Albuquerque, I don't have to because he texts me all the time. In fact, today is the first time he hasn't text me by now.
I feel pathetic though...when he sends me a text or calls I get excited - HE IS THINKING ABOUT ME. How sad is that? I am a strong, independent woman. I am financially stable on my own, I (used to be we) have a fun active social life...why do I let him control my emotions so completely?
Detachment, detachment, detachment - I know. I have work to do.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
