Update: Even though he hasn't seen her for 6wks or more I found out from his email it was not for lack of trying. She has told him to take a hike since he cannot commit to her, returned stuff to his friend's house(where he is living), apparently won't respond to his calls. I need advice on what to do from here. The last email from him was an announcement that he would not contact her again(this is the night before our first MC meeting, but at the end he leaves an open invitation for her. " Let me know if you change your mind about our relationship and I will be waiting for you.I will love you forever...blah, blah, blah" Now is this part of the MLC affair that he can't quite let go of the fantasy, or am I in serious trouble? He didn't say I am now willing to D the wife, which is why she finally wised up. He still wants both in my opinion and when I pulled and she pushed he jumped back to me. But am I just going to have him with one foot out the door?
