I don't send her money Coach. I took on the majority of our debt and kept the house. So she couldn't force me into bankruptcy, nor did I want her doing that to herself. I was trying my best to understand and respect the WAW. But that was the agreement when it all went down. I was feeling a lot of guilt back then. Overtime that guilt became actual remorse. But there is only so much remorse I can feel, before it gets in the way of my progress.
LIke I have seen many times before in the posts - I need to be a WAH now. She lives with her choices, I live with mine.