Let me assure you that your feelings don't mean squat to her protect your self and your kids. Right now she is in the drivers seat she has no reason to want to change. Only you have the power to force changes. In the long run she will respect you for standing up to her and doing whats right for your kids. I am 3 months into a custody battle every time I turn up the heat she gets a little nicer and allows me more access to my kids.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct