I am trying to do 2b, since I have no hard evidence and cannot gather intel to confirm that he is having EA/PA.
We agreed to stay in the house together on the condition that we not pursue other relationships until the D is final. But I suspect his is starting to pursue other women or is already involved. I am devastated by the situation with my mother, and I know that when he comes home from the holiday weekend and I let him know about my mother that I will crumble because he has been my main support system since we've been together. I am very vulnerable and weak right now, so I was thinking of asking him to leave for awhile so I'm not tempted to seek comfort from him. It's so hard to keep thinking with my head when my whole world is falling apart.
Last edited by Oxymoron; 09/03/1005:38 PM.
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"
