No, Kerry I don't see that. He's not a distancer. We did the LL test together months ago and are aware of each others language. We are similiar in that aspect.
Distance of our houses will always be an issue until my maintenance runs out in 5 years. I would not nor could not give that up until I'm out of school and able to support myself and the kids.
He would never be able to move here due to his little ones school schedule and when he has them during the school week. I have a junior and would not move there until that is resolved and by then D will be a sophmore so we are both "stuck" for a few years where we are.
That said ... we are not talking about that kinda of future seriously as he was married very quickly the 1st time around and freely admits that he jumps into relationships to quickly. So, we both want to take our time.
But honestly I do want to share my life with someone in a "married" way sooner rather than later. I enjoy being married but I won't sacrifice my wants for my needs.
He talks about future plams... ie... vacations and always speaks of we when talking about the future. For instance, when filling out the kids paperwork for school he supported me adding him as an emergency contact. (since I can't depend on their father)
I think we were jsut spending way to much time together over the early summer and there was a lot of heavy stuff going on the with EXH at the time.
You should have let me know you were coming up.... I could have met you guys for a hike and some huckleberries and fresh fish!
Last edited by sandycay; 09/03/1005:12 PM.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
