TAMF and Albuquerque-I'm in the same situation as you. been with him since we were 17. I'm so heartbroken. There's no glimmer of hope for him coming back. He doesn't make decisions unless he's thought about all of the consequences and his pain staying in our relationship outweighs the coming pain. Loss of the family structure for the kids, my family who adores him, loss of the extended family, loss of us as best friends.
What's even more heartbreaking is that we both love each other. He said he will give me anything I want and he won't fight me for anything.
Let's keep in touch. we're all in pain.
Me 40 H 42 S 16 D 15 Together for 23 years Married 18 Blow up 8/21/10 DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10
