I know that if I leave this to her, she'll milk it and not make a decision in a timely manner. I'll be "on hold" while she slowly gets her sh5t figured out.
I don't have time for that and don't want to wait until she decides what she wants to do. Her previous decisions put us here.
I make the decisions now for me.
I believe I am detached now more than ever. I am really unsure if I would want her back at this point. It would depend on the level of sincerity she brings to the table. And I'd still have to think about it.
But either way, her decision leads me to follow through. The analogy we used was to "walk her to the edge". I don't want to wait for another decision from her on when I can get my life going again.
Walk her to the edge, don't push. Let her see the abyss. Then she'll either jump or turn back.
