Kissak,

Cellphones and Facebook are the work of the Debil!! Thas rite, the Debil!

I often think they were created by cheating spouses as a way to cheat. It all just makes it so much easier. You can cheat without getting your hands dirty, but it only encourages you to actually jump in the mud.

When my husband and I R 8 years ago, we went through a similar experience. Walking on eggshells all the time in your own home is not fun. I wish I could give you insight as to where it all ends, but for me, the snap was him deploying to Iraq. It seemed to wake him up.

Now, here I am again, and no deployment for H in sight. Having to work through this one the old fashioned way. Patience and resolve.

I can tell you that back in the day, I would try to smile and just be supportive, not appear suspicious or jealous, and go about my business as if he wasn't acting like a 14 year old.

((Hugs))