WAH help please

[Oxymoron]

Thanks Puppy. As you know, any encouragement is much appreciated during this time, and I do realize that it's better to seek it here than from H.

So even though I have never stated that I do not want a D, it is still best to remain dark and not say it at all?

I can't do any A busting since I have no access to his phone or laptop. He is on the computer all day at work. I have gotten small hints that he is seeking other women to move on to if he hasn't already, and that goes against one of the agreements we made when we decided to both stay in the house until D. I want to focus on the situation with my mother and focus on myself, but the hints that he's out dating are causing me to obsess. I'm thinking of asking him to leave the house for a week or 2 so I can focus, but I'm not exactly sure how to say it without it sounding like I am totally done with M since I never said I didn't want a D.

I am trying hard to stick with the methods, but like others have stated-it's hard to see your own M objectively, so feedback is very helpful. And I know I screwed up a lot in the very beginning before I found this site and read the books.